Okay 1st things 1st I'm NOT a virgin myself
I did this for a friend who is old fashion. Yes she still a virgin but she doesn't go around telling people she is, like most of these girls do now a days.
When people do find out she is they try to get her to have sex with some random guy and they all get mad at her for not doing so. She once told me a guy broke up with her because she wouldn't get in bed with her...i felt bad for her.
We talked over the weekend a lot and sex was one of many subjects we talked about and she told me her reason in waiting to to make sure the guy she was with was there to stay for her not for just one thing. She said too my of friends have gotten in bed with guys that's promised to marry them and the world but after that night they break up with them and leave and then the girl finds out she pregnant and the guy wants nothing to do with her and the baby.
She for her waiting is one of many ways to see if the guy truly loves her and is gonna be with her and be true to her.
Even though I'm a non-virgin i respect that opinion of hers. Honestly wasn't gonna make this stamp because of the virgin non virgin war going on here on DA. It's a stupid fight honestly. People are gonna do what they gonna do, but it's our actions which define us of who we are, not how much sex you have. With so much pressure around she starting to think her plan is a bad idea and should just give up (which I told her not to) I like her plan, I wish i was a little smarter when it was my 1st time.
We got enough virgin non-virgin war going on TV, movies, books etc etc it's all over the place I can understand why some people lash out about it and want to state their opinion.I'm leaving comments on, but if you leave a comment wanting to start and fight/debate or something along the lines rude I will ignore it, or mark it as spam
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